Dating 101 Red Flags: I Learned The Hard Way...

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If a man doesn't respect and get along with his Mother then don't expect him to be capable of getting along with you. It took me years of observation to come up with that conclusion. I wish I had read an article  like this..  Red flags. Warning. Danger. Danger. Danger…when I was in my 20's. Granted there are exceptions in cases of abuse etc. but if a man doesn't respect his Mother chances are he might not respect women in general. Find a man that HONORS his Mother and the odds are in your favor that he will honor you. I know from experience and I am with a man who has the utmost respect & a great relationship with his Mother. Another red flag is a "man" that refers to women as hoes, bitches etc He. does NOT respect women & in my opinion men that call women that are low on the pole, bottom of the barrel and you need to avoid them at all costs unless you like a good beating once in awhile... I'm not saying all men that call women that are abusers but the characteristics of an abuser are.

I recommend finding out as soon as possible what kind of relationship he has with his Mom. He talks shit about her.... he'll talk shit to you. It won't take long before you have an idea if he's a keeper or if you should... DUMP THAT CHUMP!

Happy Dating & Good luck! Hit me up if you need any advise or someone to vent to. I have a great deal of insight in the area....

xx Sam

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Purple Haze

This is my trippy hippy bike. It looks like a bike a stoner girl would own. It's my purple paisley express that I named... Purple Haze. I bought it last summer. 

It definitely gets noticed...

It definitely gets noticed...

She's so fly! 

White walls tires move over...

White walls tires move over...

 

Fenders. They keep the rain & mud from getting on you! They also keep rocks from hitting you. 

Fenders. They keep the rain & mud from getting on you! They also keep rocks from hitting you. 

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Paisley Seat. It needs to be titled back a little. 

Paisley Seat. It needs to be titled back a little. 

Nice rack for packages or a 6 pack cooler!

Nice rack for packages or a 6 pack cooler!

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The front fender 

Nice grips...

Nice grips...

I have a cooler on the handle bars & a basket too that I can use but it's not on it right now. 

I have a cooler on the handle bars & a basket too that I can use but it's not on it right now. 

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On Loving Yourself

Loving yourself is key to loving others. How can you love someone else if you don't love yourself?  I am a firm believer that all women need to live on their own for a significant amount of time to get to know and love themselves. All women need to learn to take care of themselves vs relying on a man to validate them as a human being. Loving yourself is a keystone to not only a healthy relationship but a happy life! 

Tiny Buddha Article on Loving Yourself

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Men And Shoes

 

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Try, try again until you get that pair that fits just right. In the end you may have a lot of shoes cast aside but patience pays off. Good things do happen to those that wait. The key is the ability to wait that time out and not by sitting at home moping but by living life to it's fullest. Having a man is great but you shouldn't  NEED one. You can want to be with a guy and share your life but if you need a guy in your life then you have some issues and really need rely on yourself and not a guy in order to be fulfilled-happy. 

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Stoner Girls Guide To Dating: Don't Limit Yourself

I see quite a few stoner girls tweeting that unless a guy smokes pot they won't have anything to do with them. That's FOOLISH and by eliminating guys that don't smoke means less options for you. The majority of my serious long-term normal relationships have been with a non-toker and I am married to a great guy that doesn't get high ( he did on our vacation though & I gave him a medible! lol).  I have found that men that don't blaze to be more stable both emotionally and financially.

You'd be surprised at how many men that don't toke are tolerant of it. They may not celebrate the fact that you smoke weed chronically but accept the fact that they love a stoner girl. I have had a couple of non- tokens I have ben with would rag about it on occasion but that's it and I'm not with them!

 My better half has asked me, " Do you have to get high before everything?" Ummmm, yes, pretty much! I know he wished I didn't do it but I do and he deals with it. 

I composed a list of the pro's and con's of partners that don't smoke pot vs. those that do...

Advantages- 

  1. straight guys have their shit together more than guys that smoke pot
  2. there's more weed for you
  3. no arguments over how much you blazed 
  4. saves money only having one stoner in the household (if you're buying it)
  5. no one gets into your stash

Disadavatages: 

  1. you have to provide  your own weed for yourself all the time unless your guy is really cool and buys it or gives you $ for it (Some do!) 
  2. always smoking alone
  3. no one to roll one for you- I think he tried once for me
  4. no after sex doobie (not really a big deal for me)

So as you can see the advantages and disadvantages are about equal. 

Most men today suck! It's very hard to find a great guy, believe me I know full well!  I kissed MANY a frog to find my prince. Women always tell me how lucky I am and that if I don't want my hubby anymore that they'll take him...even my own sister said that. I've have always said that if the world had more men like mine in it- the world would be a much better place. I call him a modern day Sir Walter Raleigh. You may or may not know of the story of a gentleman that took his coat and laid it over a puddle for a lady to walk on so she wouldn't get her feet wet or dirty. That's how my man rolls. I wish that every girl could have  a wonderful guy like him but I am aware that men like him are far and few between and how you can find a real gem in a world full of turds. 

I know men better than most women. I am an expert when it comes to the topic of men, dating & relationships  and am always more than willing to give advice, listen to a rant and help the single ladies find a guy worth hanging on to!  

How did I come to be such an expert? There are two major reason's... I hung out so much with guys platonically that I was the girl that was one of the guys. I learned tons!  I tossed gender bullshit aside and turned the tables around in regards to its ok for a a guy to sleep with a lot of girls but not women. I was definitely aggressive in my wild single days and went after what I wanted and the majority of the time I got what I wanted, I didn't usually give up until I did, I loved a challenge & I had the fine art of seduction down to a T. 

I'm hoping that my knowledge and experience can help not only empower women to be independent, educated & confident  but to help them DUMP THAT CHUMP and find a guy that will be loyal, loving and most of all respectful of you. 

article on DATING ASSHOLES

 

Stop the pattern of dating bad boys... they're not long term relationship material. You may think good guys are boring... get over it, they're not. Go for less drama and bullshit in your relationships if you are one that thrives on that stuff.  

Stop the pattern of dating bad boys... they're not long term relationship material. You may think good guys are boring... get over it, they're not. Go for less drama and bullshit in your relationships if you are one that thrives on that stuff.  

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THE DONG BONG

I had to do a double take when I saw this "dong bong" at the head shop (no pun intended). It would be great for a bachelorette party and as a conversation piece. I can imagine my bests faces if I brought this out! The reaction itself would be worth buying it....

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