Try, try again until you get that pair that fits just right. In the end you may have a lot of shoes cast aside but patience pays off. Good things do happen to those that wait. The key is the ability to wait that time out and not by sitting at home moping but by living life to it's fullest. Having a man is great but you shouldn't NEED one. You can want to be with a guy and share your life but if you need a guy in your life then you have some issues and really need rely on yourself and not a guy in order to be fulfilled-happy.