I see quite a few stoner girls tweeting that unless a guy smokes pot they won't have anything to do with them. That's FOOLISH and by eliminating guys that don't smoke means less options for you. The majority of my serious long-term normal relationships have been with a non-toker and I am married to a great guy that doesn't get high ( he did on our vacation though & I gave him a medible! lol). I have found that men that don't blaze to be more stable both emotionally and financially.
You'd be surprised at how many men that don't toke are tolerant of it. They may not celebrate the fact that you smoke weed chronically but accept the fact that they love a stoner girl. I have had a couple of non- tokens I have ben with would rag about it on occasion but that's it and I'm not with them!
My better half has asked me, " Do you have to get high before everything?" Ummmm, yes, pretty much! I know he wished I didn't do it but I do and he deals with it.
I composed a list of the pro's and con's of partners that don't smoke pot vs. those that do...
- straight guys have their shit together more than guys that smoke pot
- there's more weed for you
- no arguments over how much you blazed
- saves money only having one stoner in the household (if you're buying it)
- no one gets into your stash
- you have to provide your own weed for yourself all the time unless your guy is really cool and buys it or gives you $ for it (Some do!)
- always smoking alone
- no one to roll one for you- I think he tried once for me
- no after sex doobie (not really a big deal for me)
So as you can see the advantages and disadvantages are about equal.
Most men today suck! It's very hard to find a great guy, believe me I know full well! I kissed MANY a frog to find my prince. Women always tell me how lucky I am and that if I don't want my hubby anymore that they'll take him...even my own sister said that. I've have always said that if the world had more men like mine in it- the world would be a much better place. I call him a modern day Sir Walter Raleigh. You may or may not know of the story of a gentleman that took his coat and laid it over a puddle for a lady to walk on so she wouldn't get her feet wet or dirty. That's how my man rolls. I wish that every girl could have a wonderful guy like him but I am aware that men like him are far and few between and how you can find a real gem in a world full of turds.
I know men better than most women. I am an expert when it comes to the topic of men, dating & relationships and am always more than willing to give advice, listen to a rant and help the single ladies find a guy worth hanging on to!
How did I come to be such an expert? There are two major reason's... I hung out so much with guys platonically that I was the girl that was one of the guys. I learned tons! I tossed gender bullshit aside and turned the tables around in regards to its ok for a a guy to sleep with a lot of girls but not women. I was definitely aggressive in my wild single days and went after what I wanted and the majority of the time I got what I wanted, I didn't usually give up until I did, I loved a challenge & I had the fine art of seduction down to a T.
I'm hoping that my knowledge and experience can help not only empower women to be independent, educated & confident but to help them DUMP THAT CHUMP and find a guy that will be loyal, loving and most of all respectful of you.
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